A cautionary tale for young ladies out there....
I have been doing a lot of travelling for work and my colleagues are young males. For some reason they seem to see me as one of the boys. I have no issue with this as they tend to relax around and act like they do when there are no women around. I must say that I'm glad that I'm not part of the generation of women that is being preyed upon by these young guys. Maybe I'm old fashioned but when did it become OK,.... no "the norm" for men to tread women like objects to be used and discarded on a whim. Case in point, on the third day of our 5 day research project one of the guys complained of how sexually frustrated he was. This is someone who is a bit of a rolling stone and always brags about his conquests to the extent that I would wonder, why... While at a local 'tshisa nyama' which is barbecue for the non South Africans he arrives with this girl that he's just picked up fabricating a story of their being long lost loves who've been apart for the ...